Third Sunday after Trinity, 2011

Text: St. Luke 15:1-10

The Rev. Jerry Kistler

St. Stephen’s Reformed Episcopal Church

Montrose, Colorado

 

“Making Friends with Sinners”

 

Then all the tax collectors and the sinners drew near to hear Him. And the Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, ‘This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.’”

 

Jesus said, “The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Look, a glutton and a wine-bibber, a friend of tax-collectors and sinners.” Could the same be said of you? Does your behavior in the world open you up to the charge that you’re a friend of sinners? Or are you so righteous that no one could possibly accuse you of that? Well, let me say that I hope that you are not wrongly accused of being a friend of sinners. I hope it’s true. I hope it’s true because Jesus was indeed a friend of sinners, and still is. Jesus was and is a friend of everyone except the righteous, that is, those who in their own eyes are righteous and therefore have no need of his friendship.

 

The Pharisees asked why He ate with tax collectors and sinners and he responded, “The well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick…. I didn’t come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.” “I came to seek and to save the lost.” That means that if you, the once lost sinner, now know Jesus as your friend, it’s only because He sought you out in your state of lost-ness. So are you now seeking to make friends with those who are still lost, or are you content with the company of the righteous? You know, it was to challenge that attitude of satisfaction—satisfaction with being a member of the in-group, a satisfaction that builds walls rather than opens doors--that Jesus told the two parables in our Gospel lesson today.

 

“What man among you, having a hundred sheep, it he loses one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness and go after the one which is lost until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulder [and carry’s it home] rejoicing.”

 

Sure Jesus, but what about the ninety-nine left in the wilderness? Who takes care of them? Who protects and feeds them while the shepherd is out looking for the one lost sheep? I mean isn’t that irresponsible of the shepherd? How can he put at risk ninety-nine on account of one? And it’s the sheep’s own darn fault for getting lost? The ninety-nine didn’t wander off. They’d stuck together as a group. They’d followed the shepherd wherever he wanted them to go. He should just cut his losses, shouldn’t he? After all, the loss is only one percent. A businessman should expect a certain percentage of loss. He should be satisfied that he still has the ninety-nine.

 

If we’re honest, isn’t that what is in the back of our mind when we read the parable? Don’t we feel a sense of vicarious envy on behalf of the ninety-nine? But here’s the point: the shepherd counts the lost sheep as of equal value with any one of the ninety-nine. And he wants all one-hundred. He’s not content to cut his losses.

A pastor stepped up to the pulpit one Sunday and announced to the people that he was going to take an extended sabbatical from preaching and teaching in the parish in order to concentrate his time and efforts on going out to meet the people of the neighborhood and to minister the gospel in whatever avenues God opened to him. After the service some of the people of the congregation we heard to say, “All he cares about are the new people. We are the ones who have been members here all our lives and no one cares what we think or what we like. He only cares about getting outsiders to come. What about us?” This is the whining of the ninety-nine.  The point is the ninety-nine are not the ones who are lost. They’re already found. And, anyway, shouldn’t it be the shepherd and the ninety-nine who go out looking for the lost sheep together? You see the ninety-nine represent those who are already safe in the covenant, those who are already gathered together in the sheepfold of the kingdom. So why is it that they’re just standing around grazing in the wilderness? If they’re supposed to be such good followers of the shepherd, why aren’t they out there following the shepherd to find His lost sheep? You know why It’s because they are the ones who are satisfied with their numbers. They are the ones who are content to cut their losses. They’re content with the company of the righteous, and complain that the shepherd makes friends with sinners.

 

Jesus is the Good Shepherd and we are his sheep if we hear his voice and follow Him, even if to follow him means we have to pick up our hooves and leave our comfortable grazing land to seek out and make friends with lost sinners.

 

“Or what woman among you, having ten silver coins, if she loses one of them, does not light a lamp, sweep the house, and search carefully until she finds it? And when she finds it, she calls her friends and neighbors together, saying, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found the piece which I lost.”

           

If Jesus couldn’t appeal to their altruism, perhaps he could appeal to their greed. We have a lot harder time cutting a ten-percent loss, especially when it’s our own hard-earned cash. But that’s just the point. We don’t often think of the lost as one of our own, and less frequently do we think of him/her as of equal value with each one of us safe back here in the piggy bank. But notice that in the parable the coin doesn’t become any less a coin, or any less valuable a coin, for rolling away and getting lost. And so we don’t hear the woman saying, “Oh, well. I’m not going to bother myself about this one lost coin. True, it’s one of ten, but I still have nine, and I’m content with them.” That would be ridiculous, wouldn’t it? But what Jesus is saying is that it should be just as ridiculous for us to be satisfied with the company of the righteous, and not to seek out the lost, because in God’s estimation they are just as valuable as us as any of us. They are just as desired as any one of us, because each of us, saved or lost, are made in His image. Each one of us are His offspring by creation, and that makes the lost our kin. Would we be satisfied to cut our losses if the lost was our brother? But he is! And in case Jesus’ hearers missed the point, he tells them yet another parable: the parable of the lost son, which is not a part of our Gospel lesson, but which concludes His teaching on this matter.

 

Remember what happens when the son returns home and his father throws him a welcome home party. The elder brother gets jealous. He complains to his father, “Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat that I might make merry with my friends. But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.”

 

Notice that he doesn’t even acknowledge the lost as his own brother. He’s “this son of yours.” The implication is that the elder brother would have been glad to cut his losses and make merry with his friends. His younger brother didn’t deserve to share in his father’s blessing. After all, he’s the one that ran away. But his father answers him, “Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours. It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.” Your brother was lost and is found.

 

Are you a friend of sinners? Are you actively seeking out friendships with unbelievers? I’ve heard it said that we shouldn’t seek friendships with unbelievers. I have had Christians tell me that Paul’s doctrine that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers means we shouldn’t have unbelievers over to our homes for dinner, or that we shouldn’t go to a party in an unbeliever’s home, or that we shouldn’t allow our kids to play with unbelievers.

 

First, not only is that a horrible misreading of St. Paul, who in the context is talking about making covenants with unbelievers, and is more specifically forbidding Christians from joining them in pagan worship. But second, its to make St. Paul contradict himself. For that same St. Paul said to that same Corinthian church, “I wrote to you not to keep company with sexually immoral people. Yet I certainly did not mean with the sexually immoral people of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world. But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or and idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner – no, not even to eat with such a person.” The commandment is that we should break fellowship with immoral Christians, not unbelievers. But how often in the church is not the other way around?

 

Finally, if we try to make the Scriptures say that we should not make friends with unbelievers, we are the Pharisees who find fault with Jesus because He was not satisfied with the company of the righteous, but went into the homes of publicans and harlots, beggars and blasphemers, to seek and to save the lost, to seek and to save sinners like you and me. How shall we not go and do likewise?

 

Helmut Thielecke: “Jesus gained the power to love harlots, bullies, and ruffians…He was able to do this only because he saw through the filth and crust of degradation, because his eye caught the divine original which was hidden in every way – in every man! … When Jesus loved a guilt-laden person and helped him, he saw in him an erring child of God. He saw in him a human being whom his Father loved and grieved over because he was going wrong. He saw him as God originally designed and meant him to be, and therefore he saw through the surface layer of grime and dirt to the real man underneath… Jesus was able to love men because he loved them right through the layer of mud.”

 

A glutton and a wine-bibber, a friend of tax collectors and sinners. May we be so accused. May we not be satisfied with the company of the righteous, but follow our Good Shepherd into the wilderness of our culture to seek and to save our lost brothers and sisters. +